One year and counting

[Crushed]

I have been coming here for support for almost a year. I was married 43 years to the love of my life and he died in a one car accident, Feb. 6, 2007. He left for work and didn't come home. Crushed

[laurenE]

Oh crushed, 

I didnt realize it  was so close to the anniversary date.  No wonder I havent seen you around in awhile.   I am so sorry hon.  I would give you a hug and a shoulder if I could.   Those anniversary dates are sooo horrible.   I had a hard time especially with the first  two.   My heart goes out to you. 

Did you have supportive  people  to go to this week?  I hope you didnt try to  get through this alone.     You have us to run to,   I know you know that.   

Big group hug girl.   I am so sorry for your pain.

Lauren

[Crushed]

Thank you for your support. The anniversary was nothing compared to the actual day of the accident. That is all a memory now and thank goodness I never have to go back to that terrible day. The only way to go is up!
 My daughters' and I spent the anniversary day working at a homeless shelter in memory of my honey and their dad. We were to busy helping those who have absolutely nothing to have time to cry. That gave us something constructive to do and a lot to be grateful for. Life is altered forever, but our new normal isn't so bad and of course we miss R. and have him in our hearts.

[Karen Paul]

Crushed - I also did not realize that first year date was last week  - so sorry - what a tribute to your honey to do for others in his name - I think he must be very proud of you all -

Big hugs to you and your daughters..
Karen
Chris' aunt

[Crushed]

Thank you, I think so too! For his birthday he always wanted no gifts for himself and things for the mission. For our 40th anniversary we asked for no gifts for us and baby things for the mission. Our party looked like a big baby shower with wedding cake!  it was great.   

[Hope]

Crushed,

You always have had such a positive outlook on life.  I love how you live it!  You're really something, you know.  It's always so nice to read your posts.  You always have such good insight.  Take care.

Hope

[sweetpea]

Hello Crushed,

I love your strenght, your courage, and your passion. To carry on your husband's wish to give to others, is the best love you could ever give!!!!

 I know that he is smiling down at you and the kids for carring on his wish.

May you and your family recieve all the blessings that you give to others.

Sweetpea

[Crushed]

sweetpea: you made me cry!  Thank you so much for the kind words.